What’s the Best Age to Have Kids? 10 Things You Really Need to Know
First of all, how in the world can we ever agree on what “best” really means? If we’re talking purely about biology, science is pretty steadfast in its stance that younger (as in early 20s) is better – and that’s not so much opinion as empirical fact. But clearly there is more involved than just biology; there is also preparedness (emotional as well as financial), social expectations, and personal desire to take into account, not necessarily in that order.
So is “best” referring to best for
you, best for your relationship, best for your children, or something else entirely? The sociology, biology, and psychology of the situation are inseparable, yet often in conflict with one another. Amidst all this conflict, how can we ever sort out a reliable answer to the question? In short, we can’t – we all just make educated guesses about how becoming a parent will affect us, and attempt to choose accordingly. That doesn’t mean that information can’t helpus accomplish that, though. With that in mind, here are ten things prospective parents really need to take into account when planning for the future:
10Young Parents Have Fewer Peers
Younger is better?
9You Can’t Divorce Your Kid
With kids, you’re totally stuck.
8Your Genes are Healthier When You’re Young
Younger genes are better genes.
7Having a Kid Can Tie You Down…
Kids are like boat anchors… Tied around your neck… While swimming.
6…But it Can Also Set You Free
Kids can inspire you to work harder
5You’re More Balanced When You’re Older
When you’re older you’re more mature.
4You’re More Energetic When You’re Younger
However, when you’re younger you have more energy
3It’s Not Getting Any Easier
Raising kids is fun about 1% of the time.
2Older Parents Think Younger is Better
When you’re older you think you should have had them when younger.
1Younger Parents Think Older is Better
When you’re younger you think you should have had them when older.
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