5. Make her laugh
It’s no secret that women like guys who can make them laugh. Believe it or not, studies revealed that women are genetically hardwired to find guys with sense of humor truly attractive. And that’s great news if you’re a natural comedian. Humor shows intelligence and an ability to overcome difficulties. When you make a good joke even if the situation is so hard and people laugh at it, it just shows that you’re smart enough to process things and confident enough to be able to manage hard situations lightly. That mixture of qualities is what women find admirable.
But let’s be clear about this, okay? When I say funny, it doesn’t mean making immature jokes, laughing at other people, or trying hard to make the woman of your dreams laugh all the time. It doesn’t work that way. When it comes to flirting, being funny is crucial, but remember to not be too funny; otherwise she’ll think that you’re just a clown and never take you seriously. You can always start with simple and light jokes, probably about yourself or your personal experience. Lightly making fun of her is also a great flirting technique that will let her know that you’re interested in her. But remember to keep it on the level and as much as possible, avoid telling any jokes about her physical appearance. Also, avoid making jokes on sensitive issues, such as on politics, religion, culture, and sex, as she might find those incredibly offensive.
It’s very important to watch your words carefully. Even if you’re a natural funny guy, it’s still best to practice and learn effective tricks that could make her laugh. If you’re not a natural-born comedian, then learn to be. Watch comedy shows and movies, read funny magazines, or ask a funny friend to give you some tips on how to be funny. Make an effort!
4. Be Curious
When it comes to flirting, curiosity can really be a powerful tool – as long as it is used properly. By nature, women love to communicate. They love to talk about things, especially about themselves. Why else do you think women spend so much time talking with their friends over the phone? So talk to her, and ask her things about herself. Something like, “What’s her favorite food?” or “What’s her favorite place in the world?” or “What was she like as a kid?” will do. Ask her! If she mentions that her job involves being with children, ask her about the experience. Patiently wait for her reply and listen when she’s talking. This will surely make her feel she’s actually interesting and important.
But be careful, though, because she’ll know when you’re faking it. Just try to make the conversation as natural as possible, and don’t push it if the topic is not that really interesting. And please, avoid talking about her past relationships because it’ll just give you a fast-track ticket to the friend zone.
3. Compliment Her, But Not Too Much
Women love to be complimented, but it takes far more than just a “Hi, you’re hot!” to win someone’s heart. Yes, complementing is an effective way to seduce a woman, but I don’t recommend telling classic movie lines that she’s heard a thousand or rather, million times already. You know those lame pickup lines, “You’re so beautiful,” “You’re so sexy,” “You have very beautiful eyes” – women are tired of those. As a matter of fact, they no longer want to hear those.
The trick here is to not compliment her on her physical looks. If you do it, like for instance you say, “You look sexy in that dress,” she’ll automatically label you as “Mr. Everybody” – someone who just wants to get in her pants. And you don’t want that. So how you should make compliments?
As mentioned, don’t tell her those lame and predictable pickup lines she’s heard already. Instead, think of something original – something that you think she’s never heard of. Observe her and when you notice something nice about her, then tell that to her. It’s very important to say something that is true, sincere, and different. She will appreciate that more. And when you’re different, you become more appealing. But remember to not overdo it because a girl can tell if you’re just saying a bunch of bull. And that will be a minus point.