10 Reasons You’re Going to Marry the Wrong Person

10 Reasons You’re Going to Marry the Wrong Person
10 Reasons You’re Going to Marry the Wrong Person

10 Reasons You’re Going to Marry the Wrong Person

Let’s imagine, for a moment, that you have met the woman of your dreams. She is highly intelligent, beyond beautiful, and, basically, everything you have been looking for wrapped into one, perfectly-shaped person. You are overjoyed by the fact that you have just met your soul-mate, your best friend, and the person you are going to spend the rest of your life with.

So, you take some time getting to know one another. You take her out on lavish dates, travel, hand in hand, to foreign places, and take some time

to get to know her family. You feel connected, so, you propose. You are overjoyed when she looks you in the eye and says, “yes.” The happiest day of your life, however, is when that same woman holds your hands in front of all of your family and friends and says, “I do.”

Fast forward ten years and imagine that perfection begin to fade. Life is tough, and you begin to realize that your perfect union may not be so ‘perfect’ anymore. You begin to argue over financial issues, your professional lives clash, and the kids start throwing you some major curve balls. What changed since the first day you met?

Unfortunately, the answer is not so simple. Life is complex and so is the institution of marriage. One of the most logical explanations, however, is that you simply married the wrong person. While it may seem hard to believe at first, here are ten reasons why it may not be all that unlikely.

10You’re Lonely

Don’t marry cause you’re lonely

9You Feel Pressured

Don’t let someone force you to marry them

8You Don’t Listen

Listen to wise counsel

7You Don’t Talk About How You Feel

Be honest with each other

6You Don’t Marry for the Right Reasons

Love is the worst reason to get married

5Happiness is Not That Simple and You Don’t Talk about Love

Happiness comes from within

4You Build Relationships on Superficial Foundations

If the only time you have fun and get along is between the sheets you’re in for a rude awakening

3You Rush Into It

You know what they say about fools

2Society Doesn’t Help

Blame social media. I do!

1You Don’t Know Yourself

If you don’t know yourself yet how can you get married. You can’t.